Ok here's the deal, it seems that if you have 2 instances of a flash movie wether you are using swfObject or not, if you use an include to place these instances on the page, one of them will jump or jitter into place when the page is refreshed or loaded.
I have a site that has a flash Menu on the left side and a flash header above it in a table, these flash items are embbeded in an include file that is used to create the pages. But when the page is loaded or refreshed, the menu bounces or jumps up slighlty before poping into place. I'm not sure what's causeing it, but it's messing with my design. This does not occur when the files are put in with out using the include, but then that defeats the purpose of the include file.
Awsome, thank you so much it does work now. love the script by the way, I will send you a link to the script in use once I'm done with my project. I'll post it here in this thread.